The problem is 9800 GT itself only transfer video over HDMI, if we want to audio also transfer over HDMI, we need use Internal S/PDIF Digital Audio Cable to connect mother board with video card.
This is the cable. My mother board actually does support S/PDIF output, so just connect the white side of the cable to video card, and the black side to mother board S/PDIF output connection header, something like
Now pull off your other audio attachment to PC, and restart the computer, you should have audio over HDMI now.